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“Why I Quit My Job & Joined the Peace Corps”

Basirat Folami

  1. When and how did you know you wanted to join the Peace Corps?

Basirat: It started off in high school. I thought it was a cool and honorable thing to do. A friend of mines in high school, told me her brother joined and I thought it was cool. When I was in college I put it on the back burner. But as time moved on when I turned 25 (a quarter century) I started thinking, am I the person that I want to be and am I doing exactly what I am supposed to do?

What also, made me want to join the Peace Corps, was I had the opportunity to attend the events and meet real people that had already volunteered. Also, I was able to have the conversation with people that had actually volunteered and I got good vibes from the people. They said it was a great experience, it was hard but overall life changing.

  1. What made you take the leap of faith and quit your great government job to join the Peace Corps?

Basirat: I decided the Peace Corps was something I wanted to do but I wasn’t one hundred percent sure I wanted to do it but I still filled out the application. I was then accepted and I said, Wow this is real.

The Peace Corps does not just accept anyone. It was a process and I was thinking this is a once in a life time opportunity. I felt as if this was the perfect time. My family is in good health and my job was sucking at the time. I could go back if I wanted to make money but money was not my main concern because the job was boring anyways. I’ve always wanted to learn Spanish and they were sending me to a Spanish speaking country. I was taking a leap, a leap of faith but it also was a calculated risk. Being a volunteer would give me the opportunity to volunteer and give back to the world.

  1. What was the process like joining the Peace Corps?- After the application process and once you got to D.R.

Basirat:

1. Filled out the application.

2. Then you have an official interview.

3. Then you receive a letter and they tell you what countries you are being considered for.

4. If you are accepted, you receive another letter saying where you will be volunteering.

5. After you get the acceptance letter, you then have to get vaccines and a physical and you have to fill out a form for your health and you have to be medically cleared by the Peace Corps. They want to make sure you are healthy enough to live in another country because they might not have the medical resources they have in America.

6. Then you have to begin practicing your “Spanish” or whatever language you need to learn. You have to take different practice lessons to learn the language.

7. Then you pack what you will need as a necessity on the trip.

***What Happens when you get to your country or location***

Basirat: You have a day of staging. It’s kind of like a retreat. You get your helmet, bug spray, your sun screen. All of the immediate needs. You also meet the different volunteers that are in the Peace Corps.

You are then dropped off at the training center and then your host family picks you up and you stay with them for the next three months.

  1. How did your family and friends react when you told them you would be moving and living in the Dominican Republic for two years?

Baisrat: They were shocked, surprised. There was ummm pride. There were some who were happy and proud. Some were scared.  Some were excited and some people thought I was crazy and did not approve.

  1. When you officially joined the Peace Corps and you were settled into your home, how was the transition of taking a huge pay cut and moving into a new home, country, and culture?

Basirat: It was a wild wild wild wild ride. When the newness wore off and having the realization that, damn I am not making the money I use to make. At first I was like wow, I can still have happiness without a lot of money. The other realization was damn this can be hard. At first, I could get what I wanted. Like I could go to the mall. Now I have to think about the food in my fridge and if my water will be cut on. Money is a huge factor that can change a situation that can make your life much more comfortable but it is possible to have happy moments with so much less.

  1. What are some obstacles you have had to overcome, that people might not know about?

Not a lot of people know about my day to day struggles in the state. Some of the volunteers know because they go through some of the same day to day struggles. One daily example would be, if I want to do dishes I don’t have running water or a sink or dish washer. I have to put water in a bucket and wash it that way. Sometimes I don’t have enough water and we don’t use liquid we use powder, the same way. Things are so different. I go outside to the back door and I wash the dishes in the bucket. I throw the water out and then I have to use different water to rinse the soap off. Things are different. I am use to using running water and having a sink and having electricity. Simple things, like doing chores, are completely different in a country like the Dominican Republic.

  1. What is the biggest difference good and bad from your previous work to now being in the Peace Corps?

Basirat: Good- For the most part I have my own schedule and I fill fulfilled after certain activities when I volunteer. That’s the biggest and most important thing.

Bad- Money and getting people to show up. Like in the corporate world you send an email about a meeting and people show up. Here, even though I’m trying to help the community, these people are not my coworkers, so sometimes when there’s a meeting, people do not make the effort to show up because they owe you nothing and they have their own lives. Sometimes people don’t show up and sometimes they do and when the community shows up for a meeting that’s when you are fulfilled.

  1. How has your life changed?

Basirat: It has changed so much. My Spanish level has gone up. My cultural knowledge has grown. My perspective has changed.

  1. Are you happy you took the leap of faith and joined the Peace Corps?

                       Basirat: I am happy that I took the leap of faith. You caught me on a good day. Lol but yes, I am happy overall that I made this decision.

  1. What has made you the most proud and happiest throughout your entire process of joining the Peace Corps?

Basirat: My proudest moment, there is two sides. I felt really proud when I joined because other people told me how proud they were of me for taking a leap of faith. That made me know I made the right decision. I feel proud on my day to day. I had 40 children register for my class and they will graduate. When my kids take a quiz and they pass and they know the answers I feel they are learning and retaining the information, so I feel proud. Recently, I started a program we have in my school and it’s called “Chicas Brillantes”. it’s a female youth empowerment program.

We teach about self-esteem, healthy relationships, and communications styles. It’s been really fun teaching the girls that you do not have to be super skinny, or super thick or have really long hair to be pretty. Its beauty within that is important. I love the participation from the girls. They are always excited for the class and that motivates me and gives me even more energy.

For more information about Basirat Folami and her journey in the Peace Corps, you can follow her on Instagram at @Basibonvoyage_

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14 thoughts on “HOME

  1. Karen A. Leachman says:

    Hey NeNe God Blessed You with Both, yes You had your Struggles but You stayed Strong. You are a Beautiful Young Lady and Yes You have the Brains. Keep Going, Love You Much.

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  2. Brittany & KJ says:

    Go Nene!! I think this is a great idea!! I’m so proud of you and everything your doing!! Keep letting your dreams unfold before you and hold onto God’s UNCHANGING hands!! We love you!

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  3. Denise Posey says:

    Thank you for sharing your stories, Jessica and Victoria! Again I say to you Jonise, your website is amazing! I’m so proud of you. Continue to keep God first and he will direct your path. Love You, Mom

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  4. Denise Posey says:

    Eyes have not seen nor ears heard what the Lord has ahead in life for you Jonise. Continue to keep God first and he will continue to direct your path. I love the monthly changes in your website and how you focus on Young Women with Beauty and Brains! Thank you so much for including me as your Shero! I love you and will continue to pray for you and encourage you in all of your endeavors! To God Be The Glory! Mommy

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  5. Denise Posey says:

    What a wonderful personal story shared by Basirat!!!! Thank you Jonise for sharing this story and giving us the opportunity to learn more about the Peace Corps and Basirat’s journey. Let her know we are continuously praying for her and we are very proud of her!!!!

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  6. Denise Posey says:

    Jonise…..Wonderful!!!!! What can I say, you looked beautiful!!!!! Sandee, Aunt Denise is soooooo proud of you!
    Can’t wait until I come to NY and let you work some of your magic me!!!! Love you both!!!

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  7. Denise Posey says:

    Jonise you are to be commended for deciding to feature “Breast Cancer!” Jeneine and Deniece, thank you for being so willing to open up your lives and share your challenges, and victory over “Breast Cancer!” To God Be The Glory! Continue to witness, share and encourage other women! I will continue to keep you both in my prayers. Love, Jonise’s mom, Denise

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  8. Quida Terry says:

    This was a very amazing and informative article. I appreciate the writer…go NeNe!!!!! but without the subject…there’s no story. I truly thank the sisters for sharing their experiences and helping to inform us all. I walk away knowing now that you can go on and beat it. Just keep God first and trust and believe. Thank You again sisters.

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  9. Denise Posey says:

    How To Save A Pretty Penny!!! Thank you Chaka and Roxy for giving such sound financial advice and sharing your wisdom with us!!! Jonise, thank you for the variety of topics that have blessed us and informed us!!!! Thank you for placing a bright light on beautiful, career oriented young women. May God continue to bless all of you. Keep praying!!!!
    Love You, Mom

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